I just want to know about validating his comments....can you give me some examples...I guess the tears have made some of my brain functions to stop working....:-)
I did really bad last night....I guess that I shouldnt have watched the last part of Oprah....H was really moody....he was very sad or melancoly....then he said that he hates feeling like this....He started in with the whole D and will never file thing again....Stupid me asked him why he did it...what did I do to make him run between the legs of another woman(;-)) Of course he said that I have been a perfect wife and he doesnt know what is wrong with him....he just needs some space....I am gone all of the time....out and about doing things for me....what other time can I give him..... He says he wants a D but I really dont think that he does.....I am so confused about eveything. I let him get me to raise my voice and I asked him if it was over with the OW...(Damn you Oprah and guest) of course he said yes! I told him that I dont want to argue with him...its not fun for me. I told him that it is time that I take care of me and not worry all about him. He said that he agrees. What is wrong with him....can he really want a D and can he really be out of love with me...I cant bare to think about that.....I need some help and example of what to do....Sorry everyone for whinning like a baby.......