Thank you again. It helps knowing that there is a place here that I can get help. I am so down on myself...I always try and think what I did wrong to make him run into the arms of another woman. Maybe I need to lose weight...I am a little chunkier since the baby. I hate feeling so down and wondering what I could have done wrong in our M. I know that I am a nice person that was never jealous of him having friends tht were the opposite sex....its just when the friendship went further. By doing the 180 and GAL do you really think that will help the situation