I agree with Experienced.I should clarify more.I'm not saying to go file for a D, but don't let him stay home w/ you while he's playing around deciding. He needs to go elsewhere or to cut it off now and start counseling.I've been through this as well on both sides of the fence I've been the wretched one and I've been the hurt one too.Not everything exactly the same but enough of it.I only tell you this because people really can change but you can't coddle them to do it. It just doesn't work.