this relationship seems so far off right now it calls for desperate measures. If he's talking divorce and you are agreeing to it then why to you think you both aren't filing papers today. A separation for a time has saved many relationships, and puts them in perspective. Everyone jumps right to divorce, how quick, how easy to give up. Would you give up on your child if they did something terribly wrong or would you try to work with the child to see them through the difficulty. Marriage is not a date, or an engagement. Its the real deal, and it deserves every chance before divorcing. If that means taking a step back from each other then ok. You may find you don't even want him back and he may find he was stupid to let you go, but at least if you do end up in divorce court you can say that you gave it every effort. we need only to blame our selves for making bad decisions. Not each other.
