My H can't seem to enjoy sex completely unless I get off completely (and this was not always the case). He vocalizes this so I'm not just assuming here. I think being able to do that to me is a huge turn on but more so an ego boost.Sorry if I'm wrong here just an idea. Could he be wondering why can't I .........to her? I mention this also because I actally have seen this happen and the guy went out to see if he could to OW to see if it was his problem or his W's. Seriously.
