How old is he?Forgive me for getting explicit here : On what I posted - maybe he thinks she has great skills in bed but I can't "do this" to her? Some guys (when they get a little older all of the sudden start wanting to get their partner off so she'll soak the bed,have multiple orgasms, want him Sexually all the time . etc..) They wonder if they can do this to a woman and if not you can they do it to anyone. Its an ego thing as well as just wanting to excite a woman that much. Its just a maybe here. A lot of times they cannot talk about sex like that, hell a lot of woman can't either to their spouses.