Thank you for answering me. I am 28 years old. We have been together for 7 1/2 years but married only two. We have a beautiful daughter that just turned one. I talked with H tonight and to my suprise he asked me if I wanted him to move close or further away. I was in shock....all I wanted to do is cry. I didnt know that things were going to move so far ahead so fast. I told him that the decision was up to him. I feel like I am going to freak out. I have always been a good wife to him. I cant believe that he really is going to leave. Then he told me that I was pushing him into moving because I kept asking about divorce(the old me). He said what do you want to do live together and be divorced. I just kept a smile on my face and laughed a little. I dont want him to move out. I really believe that we could have worked things out. We get along good...so why are we going this route. I wish that everything would disappera with my dreams and I can wake up with my husband in love with me again. Oh by the way he asked my how I thought our sex life was...I said that it was good...he told me that he tought I was the best person that he has ever had sex with.....so if he is telling me the truth there are no problems there.....Do you really think that this can survive. I feel bad but if he moves I know that I will not be able to trust him...on his own. Help!