I am confused! I am proud of myself because my husband and I had a chance to finally talk about a D. I was able to stay srong and not cry. I agreed with him that things had been rought since he had the affair. I also agreed that we should divorce since we have been unhappy. This discusion was killing me but I kept a smile on my face and agreed with him. Please let me know if I am really doing the right thing I just want to feel loved again. He told me that no matter what happens that he will always love me. He just cant take be unhappy anymore. I allowed him to blame me and I agreed with that to......PLEASE is this really the right way of doing things.....PLEASE HELP!