I see her just about every day, but agree with you, and feel like I need to let go just, for my own well being.
Even though it has been more that a year, since we separated and she basically got everything she wanted in the divorce. She is very discontent, now she doesn't like her new friends anymore, she want to move to a new, place, and hates her job. Seems like she would finally be happy, but she is not.
I got into a strange situation, a few months ago, because she wants to move, and I agreed, to it but am now having second thought's because I would be in a strange new place with no friends. But anyways things were going very good, and she was being very nice, until I told her that I was having seconds thought's, now she is very mad and we are basically back to being cold to each other. But I start questioning if that is the only reason she is being nice.
Do I need to just let go, and act like she doesn't exist? May be this could be a good thing because, it might give me a reason to pull back and atleast emotionally get more space. Any opinions?
What would be a good plan? I'll take any suggestions may be there is something I could do that I haven't thought of yet?
She is definitely in a period of her life where she is just disappointed with alot of things, and she's feeling older.
