Thanks your responses, they really made me think this through some more…
To have an enforceable boundary you must have results/reactions for having the boundary exceed. Right? So my boundary is “regular LM” (insert whatever frequency we can agree on). However I feel pretty emasculated when it comes to the reaction. What can I do when my options are so limited?
Hairdog – my wife and I get along great outside the LM issue. I’m not happy about where we are at but I work hard to make sure the kids are not aware of the situation. I focus most of my attention on them, now.
I’ll have to think about the ultimatum without a date…
