I hear what MicheleTW is saying about not being a clone but I do think there's a "meet in the middle" solution...the whole matching h's energy is very familiar to me...and I do think my willingness to settle onto the couch for longer periods of time than I would necessarily choose for myself has gone a long way towards filling h's love tank -- QT and "peace and quiet" are big ones for him. It's also been a good lesson for me...to realize that my "busyness" was often about crazymaking (sometimes not! but sometimes yes!)
BTW...maybe it's time for a new thread before one of those moderators comes by and locks you out?
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
