The long weekend is almost over, but a 4 day week is not too bad, I suppose.
Yesterday we hung out with one of NG's distant cousin. I was surprised, as this is the time we usually spend with NG's 95 year old grandma. All NG said was that when had called, his grandma was not too chatty, but this cousin was keen to see us, which made his choice easier. It dawned on me that he really does not feel comfortable taking the lead in a relationship, hence his comment a few months ago that ow pursued him - I guess she made it easy by making him feel wanted, sought after. Message to self - don't wait for NG to take the initiative all the time- share the load
