Hi Slowly- "The only other thing I can think of is this -- there's your business, his business and God's business. I have found such peace giving myself permission to not get involved in anyone's business but my own. That means I have stopped spending much time speculating what others think or feel. How can I really know unless they tell me? Believe it or not, it's freed up a ton of time for me! "
This is great advice. I find that the anxiety of situations that I have no control over can really suck a lot of energy, get my little hamster wheel going in my brain, and then I am controlling (attempting to anyway!), and then a moment later I am crazy!
What can you give up on and turn over to the universe/God/HP/Great Spririt to deal with so that you can deal with things you really do have an impact on (your behavior and attitude)?