I have that problem too, Slowly. The need to explain myself, and to solve the problem NOW! I always end up saying far too much. Sigh! I need to work on that, but it seems to be coming naturally now that I have detached so much. I don't feel the need to constantly be initiating R talks (actually, I haven't since Bomb #2 a couple of weeks ago), or explaining myself. It's quite a freeing feeling.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
