Hi Betsey - Yes, this was such a timely reminder that I do need to have even more patience than I thought possible. To be honest, I was begining to get a tad frustrated at the lack of progress, and had to force myself to really observe what was going on.
I must confess, there are still moments when I wonder if what I'm being told is the complete truth - not just about ow, but other things. Then it occured to me that if I make total transparency the basis of our relationship, we'd both be climbing up the wall. It's really up to me to enjoy the 'lattitude' that comes with having some personal space.
I've just come from H2H's place, where the need to watch our words, say less in general, seems to be a difficult habit to cultivate. This is my assignment then for the next week - to observe and manage my tendency to still say too much
