I would have waited and then been angry,panicked and upset rejected etc. Now I think about it from H's point of view. I have been following your post since your last thread. Do you have any advice for a newbie like me.
My H is at home, he had an A (think for (1 1/2 yrs). I found out Oct 2004. Left him, came back we are working on M. He has denied the A and continues to do so. He told me once that he was terrified to tell me the truth because he was afraid I would leave him.
I am trying to trust and forgive. He is really trying and things are improving. But as soon as things start seeming "normal" I get upset and ow thoughts creep in. Do you have any advice for how to move forward. What did you do? If you have any links to your old threads I would appreciate. THanks for posting, it has really helped me and lots of others on this BB.
