I don't want to hijack either, but did any of you very intelligent and enlightened folks react with anger when your H finally came around and wanted to work things out? H sent me flowers today and I felt like tossing them in the trash, jumping up and down on them and dumping them in his lap. There was a very nice card attached that said something like "love has many shapes and paths and I see ours following the same one." Very nice, right? I wanted to punch him. Has this happened to anyone else? I should be happy right? But I just feel mad. I thought I was over being mad, or caring either way. Mel


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