I have been following your previous thread for sometime. Funny, today I planned to ask you how you have gotten over the fact that your H. had an a. and that he said that he did not plan to leave you or did not love you (or words to that effect).
I ask not to bring up old hurts but because i am struggling with the fact that my H had an a which he will not admit to (I have no physical proof). He did say that he was sorry he hurt me and that it will never happen again.
He said to me this morning that he loves me and knows what we have, that our M is stronger now and that he would think twice before doing anything like an a to jeapordise it.
He says I say I will trust him and when he tries to hold on to that I yank it away from him. I think he regrets what he did and is trying and wants me to believe in him again.
I love him, I have mostly forgiven him. But there are days when I can't believe that he would do such a thing and ask myself why and who is he? Sometimes i wonder if the hurt ever goes away. Do we ever trust again. Can we really come home? Would appreciate your thoughts on this.
