DON'T LISTEN to what H says. He'll say whatever he feels he needs to say at this moment, and it's all based on his feelings. But feelings change.
If he's expressing a contempt for you, claiming it was your ability to forgive... let that comment roll of your back, it is MEANINGLESS. One day, he might very well feel that it was a great thing that you were able to forgive him.
The reason he's showing contempt for you is because you are PURSUING him by way of telling him how the "marriage is sacred" to you and will end when you die, and so forth. See my other post to you in your "I'm Confused" thread, where I explain WHY it is that such talk is counterproductive.
