So in other words....He is probably leaving because he does have someone that he want to try with. I should just let him leave and see if she is better than me...and if she isnt...let him come home and see if it will work out. I really love him and I am trying to distance myself but I really dont want him to go....our money will be hard to do anything. I dont want to give up but if I must let him go and find his way I guess that I must.