He felt that they could still be freinds....and now he is talking to a girl that he use to date and tells her about our maritial problems....she is just a "friend" too!
Ok. He CANNOT just be friends. He already proved that to you.How would he feel if you decided to be friends with an ex lover and a new guy as well? My advice is to go to a good pyschiatrist or counseler.We did and it saved our marraige. If he won't go he needs to know it is OVER and the wheels of D are turning (even if you don't want it to be) From my experience and what I've seen when they are left with ultimatims they decide faster and save you a lot of time grieving either way they decide.But never make them think you will put up with sh-t because then they'll drag it out for as long as possible.He may choose her at first and come back but don't let him have you in limbo. You will survive whatever happens I promise you.
