My husband has been having and on/off affair for the past year and a half. It started out as "friends". I was pregnant and enjoying life while he was out really having fun.I found out and confronted him...at first he denied it and then after catching him throgh text messages and phone bills he admitted to it. He said it was over but he continued talking to her. He told me that he loves her and not me....but then he tells me that he loves me. I am so confused. I spoke to the OW and she said that they are in love and that he doesnt love me. She gave me details on what went on. I was disgusted. I gave him a chioce to end it or end it with me. He felt that they could still be freinds....and now he is talking to a girl that he use to date and tells her about our maritial problems....she is just a "friend" too! I love my H and we have a beautiful little girl who is only one. I want so bad for our marriage to work out...but can he stop! Now he told me that something in him tells me that he doesnt want to be married. He said that he is sick of me accusing him of things even though the accusations were true. He said that he feels a divorce is necessary. I dont want to lose out on all that we have worked on (our marriage). I also dont wat to lose to the OW1 or OW2. What can I do!
