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#439922 03/07/05 04:47 PM
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Hubby shaved his mustache, Hubby shaved his mustache wooooooooooooooo hooooooooooooooo.

We spent most of the weekend together doing things that had to get done. This is becoming a habit now for us on the weekend. We cuddled on my bed together and watched a movie. We even had oral later on that night. I kind of expected it, he gets horny about once a month and a half, it had been almost 2 months.

Now I have to talk to him about getting back to the drs. I know alot of people on here would be very happy with oral once a month and a half. I want real ML sometimes.

I hope each and every one of you have a great afternoon

Annette

#439923 03/07/05 04:56 PM
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Nice to hear you got tulips this weekend.

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#439924 03/07/05 05:32 PM
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He doesn't ever want you to reciprocate? Or he only wants oral on him?

I'm confused as to where he fits into the picture.

Have you ever asked him, H what do you do for sexual release and how often do you do it?

I would think that would be a good place to start the convo. Find out how active his sex life is. You already know how active he is with you.

It sounds like he's got major erectile dysfunction issues. He has my sympathy and so do you, my dear!

Keep us posted and how did it come about that he shaved the stache? Did you ask him to?

I have a lot of questions today, don't I!

#439925 03/07/05 06:20 PM
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He doesn't ever want you to reciprocate? Or he only wants oral on him?

No, its mutual, most of the time we both give. I never knew that a man could orgasm without being hard.

Have you ever asked him, H what do you do for sexual release and how often do you do it?
No, I have never asked him that. HP I have just let him do most of the initiating for the past year.

It sounds like he's got major erectile dysfunction issues. He has my sympathy and so do you, my dear!

yes, he does, but remember he had the heart problems? I am not so sure some of it isn't in his head though

Keep us posted and how did it come about that he shaved the stache? Did you ask him to?
Yes, I asked him to shave it. It was very course and it would prick me and it hurt. Even just to kiss it pricked my lip

I have a lot of questions today, don't I?

Yes, you do, but thats ok, it keeps me thinking

Annette

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I never knew they could O without being hard, either. Shows ya what I know.

It sounds to me like most of it is in his head. Would he ever go to counseling you think? Maybe you could say, You know it's been over a year since we agreed to improve our M. It has improved a lot but I think some counseling would help us a lot, since neither of us is much of a talker.

Then make an appointment with a sex therapist.

See how tricky I am. I usually end up getting my own way, sometimes it just takes longer than other times cause I have to get it in a roundabout way. Keep on trying. Look...you never thought he shave and he did.

But you are keeping the most important piece of info to yourself--how did you like it now that the hair is gone?!?

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Nice and SMOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOTH

thanks for the suggestions

Annette

#439928 03/07/05 08:11 PM
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I never knew they could O without being hard, either. Shows ya what I know.
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I sure can HP. It takes longer.

After back surgery in 1981 I hurt so much that I lost a couple of erections but was still horny. I had to take care of myself and MB. The O's were better than nothing. Big dissapointment losing the erection, felt like my sex life was over, scary for a while, which added to the erectile difficulties.

Men and their weiners (discust) as my W sometimes says.

OG Lou

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My late husband was diabetic and also had two heart attacks, and after our first year of marriage, never had a HO until he had the penile implant surgery. He had very intense orgasms with the softie, though. No ejaculation however.

My bf also has erectile problems (boy I sure can pick 'em ) and he has heart/circulatory problems, too. He's not diabetic. I think his main problem now is feeling like a complete failure in the job area.

"There are more things in heaven and earth than are dreamt of in your philosophy, Honeypot." (Hope you never have to find out...)

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Yipppeee Annette...that's definitely a step in the right direction! I'm thinking that it's time to address the frequency issue with him...let him know how much you enjoyed the hairless experience and how you'd love a repeat performance soon.

Yay for good news!

IHJ

#439931 03/08/05 05:53 PM
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Congratulations. Another step in the right direction.


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