Back I had back surgery 1981 and wanted sex a lot after surgery but every time we did ML I was in pain for a couple of days, The recovery took 6 to 9 month but by then my W started to lose intwerest in ML.
Bowels Excessive gas only painfull ocassionaly, and not wanting to stink out the bedroom is only a problem occassionaly.
Balls Last time that happened, they were a little tender after ML 3 or 4 times a day on the honeymoon. Boy, would I love to be in that prediciment again.
Morning wood / erections upon waking Happens sometimes, especially if part of my dreaming process or subconsious thinks about peeing while half awake when I have to go bad. Also If I urinated about an hour before getting up and we cuddle before I get up for the day. Sometimes even if we did ML the night before.
Causes of no sex, using the 3B to avoid sex? Other reasons / complaints he will not bring out into the open for some fear. Not a sexual guy. Depression, Worried about making it in his business, secret debts or resentments, Thinks you are using him to raise your kids and stay because you need him but don't really love him? Just a couple of things to think over, not saying any are true.
I am not HDH, just normal. W calls me HD but I lose interest in sex if there are alot of problems in the R. Even with troubles, resentments and angers, I have a difficult going without sex for longer than 2 to 4 weeks. W said she could go without for a month to a year.
Sorry if I am not much help. Just say no other guys replied so far. Other gal's replys are very valid so far.
