1st of all let me say this. Not all men wake up with erections...mine doesn't, in fact...I can't remember him EVER waking up that way. So do not take that personally.
Next, I hate to bring this up but I'm going to. Has his behavior changed in any other way? Have you ruled out an affair? The reason I bring this up (and he may not be having an affair) is that sometimes men & women who are involved in an affair will feel that they are cheating on the other person if they sleep with their spouse, so they come up with reasons not to. I hate to bring this up, but it's something to look at.
Next, if you are able to rule out an affair. You said he's seen Dr's right? Was his testosterone level checked? Do you know for a fact that he was forthright with his Dr's when he had a physical? When my H initially went to see his Doc to rule out problems...I KNOW he didn't tell him about the lack of sex...he just had a regular physical at first. Now that doesn't tell the Dr. diddly squat, that just means that overall that he's in good health. So are you sure that your issue as a couple was addressed?
