HP - thanks for the response.

That is some great stuff there. I think she'd have much of the same reaction that your H did. I've take the soft approach to this and perhaps it's time to take a hard line. She is very stubborn and hard-nosed so it may backfire. I'm going to try it anyway. What have I got to lose?

As for meeting her needs... if you mean orgasm... yes. She frequently reaches O once sometimes twice. However there is the occasion that she "just cant get there". I can go for quite a while, but she just cant reach that point of no return. I make it a point to fulfill her every time. I know I wouldnt want to ML and not O. I know that ML is more than O and I'm not fixated on the O... I think it's just important.

--HC--