GEL - thanks for your response. Here is some more insight...
She feels this way because she has the perception that it is expected. She has the feeling that she is obligated to fulfill a request. Whether or not that perception is valid I can not say. I obviously dont feel as tho I gone around the house putting pressure on her. In fact, I havent so much as touched her sexually in about a month. I purposely stopped. I hasnt made a difference. If anything she feels better because of it (her words). If I left it up to her to intitiate we'd rarely ML (again, her words).
Another reason she feels this way is because of timing for lack of a better expression. Basically, she falls asleep at the drop of a hat (she's fallen asleep at nightclubs, concerts, back of a motorcycle etc). She really does not like to ML in the morning and when she's in bed at night she feels like she has to "wake herself up" in order to ML. She's often fallen asleep during foreplay (great for the ego and self confidence - lemme tell ya). So that pretty much leaves the middle of the day - which would be fine if neither of us worked and we didnt have a 13 year old at home.
Lastly, things have become stale. It's kinda the same routine every time. Same postion, same location, yadda yadda. Not much to do about that if there's no opportunity. If I dont get a chance at bat how do I try and get a hit?
Everything just seems like a catch-22 in this relationship. It's getting very frustrating. My stich to come as time permits...
