I'm going to agree w/Lou on this. I personally WOULD NOT give Dr. Laura's book to her. I have read this book and felt it was horribly slanted and unrealistic...in short, I did not like it!
I wouldn't hesitate however to ask her to read Michelle's SSM book...because this one I do feel is pretty fair to both sides HD/LD. She at least attempts to relate to both sexes in both situations. So if your W reads the entire book...she's going to get a very good feeling of what you are going through too.
I would also recommend The Five Love Languages as well...you can order both books on CD too. I did this for my H recently since reading instantly puts him to sleep LOL...but he was more than willing to listen to the books on tape (CD)
