Thanks for the input. I guess I was just concerned that I was being inflexable not willing to talk about D. It does give me some confidence knowing that I am taking the right path in not talking about D. It might have been a little too heavy handed letting W know that I will expect her to explain to our kids that it was her decision to leave M but I think that she needs to face up to her resposibilities.
Thanks again for the input it helps to know that decisions that you make are what others would do in your situation.
