ConfuseMe wrote: It seems lately that everything I say comes out the wrong way or gets taken the wrong way. HP wrote about Dr. John Gottman book: For instance, men will sometimes "stonewall" when they are mad...they walk away or shut down and refuse to talk. Dr. Gottman researched this and there is actually a flooding of the brain that occurs with men and they become so overwhelmed that it is literally fight or flight. Since most are not inclined to punch their W's lights out, they sit there stonily silent or get up and leave.
Keep it up HP and CM, I think I can learn something here.