I think im in the same boat. Its tough to make a change based on your personal goals and not hope for some reaction / change from your spouse. I gotta agree tho it is important to make the change and expect no acknoledgement of any kind. Actually the changes I make lately seem to have an adverse effect but I think in the long run things gotta get better. They cant get much worse (I hope).
Ive read you stich and feel for ya. You hang in there too buddy. The snow is melting and the world will begin to look like a better place soon..
