Quote: So, did you ask a question, or miss asking one?
What was the question missed?
Sorry no not really I think I was just venting a little. Just a little frustrated. Weekend with W seemed to cause more resentment from her. She told me after the fact that she felt that I was "acting" for her family. She also told me that it seemed to her that I was not allowing her to talk to any of her relatives without me "hovering". The true frustration comes from her apparently telling me that she needs time. I obvoiusly misunderstood what she meant by that, she felt she was saying she needed time with her relatives alone, but I took it as the general I need time alone. I apologized for misunderstanding what she said, and told her that I could not crawl inside her head and to understand her meaning. I requested that in the future she let me know that she feels im hovering (trying to help with the kids) and I will back off. This was not taken well either. So the ongoing frustration continues.
I am continuing to work on my PMA and self image. I hope one day she can take it for what its worth as opposed to perceiving that it is a holyier than tho attitude.
