quote: ------------- Let me put it to you this way, if you were a WAS and you found out that your spouse was suspicious of you and going behind your back to prove those suspisions, do you think that would cement the D proceedings? I think so. -------------
If she is innocent, maybe it would upset her, but if your relationship were in good shape, that wouldn't be such a big deal. If on the other hand, you do uncover proof, then she is going to ticked in the extreme anyway. I will also tell you that a threat of divorce is a heck of lot easier to make than actually doing it.
All I can tell you is not to live in fear, and that it is a damn shame that spouses can put each other in places where it becomes necessary to snoop.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
