I hear ya, beleive me Loud and clear. All of her trips have not been with her boss. Maybe 1/8th have been so I dont want to jump to this conclusion yet. But beleive me if I do find evidence to the contrary, belive you me I will most definitely follow up on it.

I am conducting my "investigations" but I am being very careful and trying to insure that I dont make a bad situation worse.

Let me put it to you this way, if you were a WAS and you found out that your spouse was suspicious of you and going behind your back to prove those suspisions, do you think that would cement the D proceedings? I think so.

I need to ensure that that is not the case before I jump to any conclusions. But dont get me wrong, I am most definitely cleaning up the financial situation and ripping up all cards (just one) that are joint. She can keep all of her cards all she likes.

This I see as being kind with a backdrop of strength.

May the man of steel / tin foil be victorious in this his most dangerous battle.