I recommend that you consider reading/studying these books. Keep them to yourself for now.
"Divorce Remedy" by Michele "Surviving An Affair" by Harley. "Love Must Be Tough" by Dobson.
Also buy a book called "Not Just Friends" by Shirley Glass.
Rather than keeping that one to yourself, leave it lying about for your wife to see.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.