HP

Some great comments here. I like your line of thinking. Just to clarify in my mind, should I say, ok then I need you (W) to do some research and find out what kind of return we can get on our house after legal fees etc? Also let me know what kind of home we can move into with what is left behind?

I know I have done the research but W doesnt want to hear it. I know from looking at properties that anything that we get into would have to be very small and in a rough part of town or the other option is to move out of town (housing prices have skyrocketed here in the past four years).

I think more than anything W is trying to get me to agree to pack in the M (I know that is what she wants but will not take the step herself). I hope this tough conversations do not drive her away, but it is something that has to be dealt with. The longer we wait the worse it gets.

Here's hoping the Man of Steel / Tin Foil is able to save the world