I agree and have asked W to go to her boss and ask for a company CC to pay for all travel realted expenses. She says they refused. Is this something I really should get involved in by calling him on it? Im not too sure if it is a problem because she is a little lax in getting expenses in to her company.
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---------------- Where is she going on the trips you are paying for? ---------------- In the past three months she has been to Vancouver, Montreal, Toronto, Denver, New York etc
The bills seem to agree that is where she is going. As far as EA I think what is going on is that she is infatuated with her boss. She talks about him all the time. Currently his mother is in hospital and she is very concerned about him. I asked her this morning if she gave him a hug to let him know she is with him (something that she cannot do for me). Her response was, it wasnt a good time to do that yesterday! He is happily married and she tells me that his R with his W is a strng one, so im thinking that she is jealous of what he has and desires him but probably has never followed up on it.
The funniest thing is that she continues to tell me that for the first time in her life she is happy with who she is! Funny thing about it is that she seems to be trying to push blame entirely on me for our R problems. Geez. I think she is trying to get me to agree that we should sepparate but I am unwilling to cave in on that one. I continue to tell her that I am not going anywhere and that I am more than willing to work on our R and that I know we can end up with a loving caring R if we are willing to work on it. This is always met with silence.
I did speak to her again this morning and apologized for the timing of the convo but that this is something that we do need to discuss. She agreed. So we have arranged to talk this evening. Wish me luck in continuing down the man of steel / tin foil path.
