CM, Have you always taken a calm, logical approach to solving money problems? No one wants to concede fiscal irresponsiblity. Maybe your financial planner friend can give you some advice about the best way to go about getting your W to fess up about all her financial blunders. Sovling this problem together may open up avenues to solving other problems.
Best of luck-Cinemanymph.
I don't mind the sun sometime
The images it shows
I can taste you on my lips
And smell you in my clothes
Cinnamon and Sugar
And softly spoken lies
You never know just how you look
Through someone elses eyes
BHS-"Pepper"