This...."Also I need to clarify something, the company W works for does not expect her to pay for travel and expenses, but the problem is they are slow to remburse expenses leaving us with the intrest charges for her travel and related items."....still doesn't add up.
Our company still has our employees that must incurr company expenses have a corporate credit card. Company expenses should NEVER be on an individuals own credit card. At one time the individuals were responsible for making sure the card was paid for monthly....now however it is automatic through our system....but we still never used our own personal cards.
DON'T go for that, that is just another potential financial disaster for you!
Also, I would follow-up like you sid on your convo tonight. If you want to get her to read/listen to the book though...you might want to ask her to specifically listen to something you think she will relate to 1st, in order for her to see SSM isn't a "just do it" book; that it takes a perspective from both sides so that the other person can better understand where their partner is coming from.
