Quote: ----------- The return comment was that she needs it to book flights etc for work travel. I suggested that they supply her with a card for such purposes. That suggestion was flatly refused. -----------
Then you need to directly contact her company and find out what their travel policy is. I have never heard of a company requiring employees to travel at their own expense, other than shorter trips by car. That sounds awfully suspect to me. Do NOT tell her that you are contacting them.
quote: ------------- One more bit of info, W was married when we first met, and from what I knew of her prior marriage she seems to be going down the same path. -------------
Well, unless she addressed her prior behavior, and took steps toward rectifying her problems, then she is likely to repeat the behavior.
If your relationship started from an affair, the chances of it making it for more than a few years are very small. I am not saying that you can't or won't make it, but those are the facts.
I highly recommend that you get you finances separated, and cancel ALL your credit cards. If your wife wants a credit card, let her get one in her name only, one that you won't be responsible for. If you have joint credit cards, you need to be on the phone canceling them right after you finish this message.
Do what you can to get your fiscal responsibilities in order, ASAP.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
