I hear ya. I guess my apprehension of doing this is that in the past she took things the wrong way and told me that she felt pressured by the questions. I know I need to ask her the questions again but am a little unsure on how to open up the topic again. In the past when I have asked for more specific responses on what her needs are and / or what she is looking for she got angry and defensive to the point on one conversation of saying "Be a Man, figure it out".
I think I need to give her a little time (I hope this is the right move) to allow her to think on what we have discussed in the past. I am also trying to avoid R talks right now as they always seem to end poorly. I think I may have to leave this one for a week and just try to focus on having fun with my wife (no physical contact invloved). I think I need to focus on making her feel comfortable with me so that she will feel able to open up when I ask those questions again.
I hope Im making the right decesion..
I need to change my handle to Master of Mistakes..
