Thanks for the advice. Im looking into finding a financial adviser to try and find a plan to consolidate and eliminate the debt hanging over our heads.
Funny thing about the IUD is that she had it done about 2 yrs ago (seems to coincide with her LD). Back then she didnt like the hassle of condoms for birth control (The pill is not an option for her as she is prone to blood clots), so she made the decision to have this done.
I asked her this morning if she knew about the side effects when she had it done, and she told me that the IUD is not causing her difficult cramping, lack of desire and weight gain. So I left the subject alone.
I have one other question looking for advice on. She does have this book that she reads periodically that is rather, shall we say, explicit on sexual exploits of a business woman. Im not too sure if I should ask her about it or leave the subject alone completely. Any thoughts?
Also should I continue making date nites or would this seem to be perceived as too needy?
