quote: ----------- She also told me that dreaded words, I Love you but am not IN love with you. -----------
I have had a few 'flags' flying from your initial posts, but nothing really pulse quickening. Just in case, have a look around. You might consider reading the posts between csw and me. There are some basics outlined there.
Regardless, continue to do what you are doing with her. No grabby/needy stuff - calm, cool, happy, firm resolve but tender toward her, no anger. Be involved with her, but distant in the needy department.
Come up with a workable financial plan. Do it soon. Tell your wife what the plan is, then ask her what, precisely, she needs to feel comfortable. Modify your plan to accommodate. The need for financial stability is a legitimate emotional need.
If you two aren't doing it very often, why the need for an IUD?
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
