Had a small chat with my wife, she was asking me "what did I do that made you change from being distant to showing me affection?" I told her that she did nothing and that I decided that I cant live in a relationship that has us living as roomates / parenting partners. She wasnt feeling to well (it seems that she has a perpetual cold going on, we are at 6 mnths and counting so far) but she did agree that we should talk more about this.
The other day I wrote on the calendar (on the fridge) "Date Nite?" She did notice and asked what we were doing, I think I was just fishing but at least I got a nibble. She also mentioned that maybe we could talk more about our R then. Wish me luck, I hope things go well.
