In addition to Greeneyedlass here are some more books: "You can be Happy no matter what" Richard Carlson "When Chicken Soup Isn't Enough" Bradley Barris "The 7 Habits of Highly effective People" Stephen Covey "Men are from Mars, Women from Venus" John Gray "You Just don't Understand" Deborah Tanner "Divorce Busting" Michelle Weiner-Davis "Divorce Remedy" Michelle Weiner-Davis "Winning Your Wife Back" Gary Smalley "When Love Dies, how to save a marriage" Judy Bodmer "Stop unwanted Divorce" Nathan Claunch "Living, Loving, and learning" Leo Buscaglia "The Pleasers" K Leman "When your Best is not good enough" K Leman "How one of you can bring two of you together" S Page "7 Principles of making marriage work" J Gotham "Family First" P McGraw Go to a counselor. Pray. Change yourself.