Alright, this blown trust is all too new for me. I know I am not being sneaky looking for proof, but it makes me feel crappy just the same. Better, but crappy. I don't know what proof I need, but I am sure I can find it if I look. If I am attempting to find court worthy proof, that is one thing, but I am really just looking for enough proof to refute W's denial. A simple proven lie in regard to her wherabouts would be enough in my book. I need to see them together when she says she is elsewhere.... She says she is working late every night, and she has always worked late, but not every night. She cleans new houses, and some days she does windows, but how can you clean windows in the dark?

HD, I am on the bill, but she is primary, as she had the phone first, and I got one on a family plan. She put password protection on the acct when she ended online access, so I can't reopen online access. I tried the few options I could think of for password, but no luck.

I will compare notes with OM's W again, and see what we come up with. I hope to get some reassurance from the atty in regards to fees, etc, but I am sure the news will only be bad.

I heard from my out of town job prospect and sadly put it on an extended hold, as I can't risk leaving now, even for a few days. This scenario is getting worse every day! Everyone here has reinforced my fears, W is fooling around with a guy she once reviled, I had to turn down a dream job due to paranoia, my fish is swimming upside down, and I will need to SELL MY TOOLS to pay for an atty. What next?