Hi, csw.

I understood about the initial contact with the other man's wife. Since the affair is ongoing, it would be a good idea to compare recent notes to see if you can determine if the affair has gone physical.

You must also understand, that an emotional affair is just as bad as a physical one. In fact, for most women, an emotional affair comes before the physical part.

Generally speaking, as a guy, the emotional part is not going to bother you as bad as the idea of it being physical, and this is a mistake, because with most females involved in affairs, the emotional part is prep for the physical.

Generally speaking about guys, the sex can come first, then the emotional.

You did well with the hug and kiss.

Secret cell phones (often disguised as company phones) are the trademark of affairs.

What is the other man's wife doing regarding the affair?

We need to develop a good strategy for you. You are well on your way with a good start for now.

-NOPkins-


I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.

-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect.
-An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.