Hey Everyone! I appreciate the pats on the back. I honestly couldn't have done it without the advice from all the LADIES...okay and you men-folk, too.
CSW--
Quote: I have firmly grabbed myself and given a good shake
Remember not too much of that...it's what got us (at least some of us) to the place where we are with our Ws!
Quote: is your W seeing a counselor? It seems like my W's C is filling her head with the courage to ditch me. She has changed so much in so little time. Keep up the heat, she will melt, unless she is getting some cool down from outside.
My wife and I are seeing the same C...both individually and together. The C is very marriage-oriented but she's also a realist and can see that my wife isn't open to saving the R talks...YET! At my session on Tuesday, she told me to get BUSY implementing the DB techniques I've been learning...gotta love her for that!
I understand what you mean by "she has changed so much in so little time." It feels that my W is that way too. In some ways she has because for her to make this decision, she had to get the courage and harden herself...and that's what she is doing. BUT, in the bigger picture, she has been struggling with this for at least a year and a half--and finally got the courage to do something about it.
I still think she is getting less than productive advice from somewhere. BUT, all I can do is keep on keeping on...so that maybe, JUST MAYBE, I will be more appealing to her than the advice she's getting!
Have a GREAT day guys! It's beautiful here...so, I'm going to leave a little early and take my kids to play down at the boardwalk on Galveston Bay!
