Hi Nopkins,
Keb is a good May-un, and I think we are united as LDHs to convince our near WAWs to change their minds. (besides, he seems to have a knack for attracting the ladies ) I truly appreciate that you are reading my threads. Believe me, I'm NOT movig out. The job I spoke of was for a couple of weeks, working in my art, with someone who far exceends my marketing capabilities. When I gave up my art, W gave up on me, believing that the years we spent were wasted. Despite my fears, I do think it could be a positive experience overall.

Part of the problem with Keb & I is that we seem to let fear and our past experiences dictate our present and future. W will do what she will do. I can't even wish to control her. If she is in a PA, it will be short lived, (unless it is with someone different than I suspect) If she is in an EA with suspected OM, there is nothing I can do about it besides continuing to show her my love in ways that she allows, improving my shortcomings, my health, and my net worth, (those d*mn attorneys ) I feel so bad about being an LDH and sending her to the state she is in . I am willing and able to meet her needs at this point forward, but she seems to be keeping something up her sleeve. Keb & I are both sweet and loveable, but our W's want passion. I reckon I need to learn myself a thing or two about football (er, season's over) or hockey (er, no season). No, what we need is to get over our hangups and hope that we get a second chance to let our passion out of the cage we were forced to put it in so long ago.

I did tell OM's W of the evidence, well, actually, OM's W's suspicions caused me to discover the evidence, leading to her confrontation with her H, which led to OM telling my W about her evidence, which led to my W cancelling our online access to cell bill. Get it? I don't
Thanks again for the help.