I am just now getting to read part of your previous thread.
I don't now exactly where you are in your marriage right now, but I want to reiterate;
Your wife needs to be the one that moves out if she demands separation, NOT YOU. Why in the world would you move out when she is the one breaking marriage vows.
Again, I have not read everything, but I will, hopefully by tomorrow.
If the affair is still on, and if you have not done so already, you need to take all of your evidence and expose the affair to the other man's wife. Absolutely Do NOT announce that you plan to do this. Just do it.
An affair is a fantasy, many of them fold immediately upon exposure. Your wife will get mad at you when you expose her fantasy.
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.